The debate.

I've never been the type of person who did not vaccinate their child. But with the swine flu epidemic I find myself debating. Not only for my daughters but myself. Molly my youngest is too small to even be considered for a shot but Lily, my kindergarten daughter, is getting a nasal swab from her school. I (being pregnant) hadn't planned on getting one. I mean, how extensive a study could they have done with pregnant women when it takes 9 months to make a baby? But I hear stories like this and it makes me second guess.

"In the four months she (Aubrey Opdyke) was hospitalized, she spent five weeks in a coma, suffered six collapsed lungs and a near-fatal seizure. High-pressure ventilation blew her up like a molten balloon until “she looked like she weighed 400 pounds,” her husband, Bryan, said, and she has stretch marks from her neck to her ankles. Her muscles and lungs are still so weak that she uses a walker.

And, most important, she lost her baby. Parker Christine Opdyke, almost 27 weeks in the womb, was delivered by emergency Caesarean section on July 18, when her fetal heart rate plummeted during Ms. Opdyke’s third lung collapse. Her airways were too blocked to let a breathing tube in, possibly a side effect of the drugs saving her mother. She lived seven minutes."

Read the whole story here. It made me cry.

It's quite a scary decision either way. I really don't know what I will do.

Good Idea.

You know what would be a good idea? Renting a vintage photo booth for a wedding and having the guests take unlimited free photos. Then get the negatives of those photos and put them in a photobook like Mypublisher as a keepsake and send a copy of that book to each of the party guests. I think prices start at $12.95 a book for 20 pages BUT they always have a 40% off total order coupon going on. I think the one right now is HOLYSAVE40. Oh my goodness, it's such a good idea it makes me want to have a wedding.

I personally like the traditional kind with black and white photos using film in a long strip. They are kinda pricey so for a simple party you might want to set up a makeshift one with a portable printer that prints four different photos on one sheet.

I once ordered from mypublisher and got someone else's photobook for their wedding guests. I wonder if they also got a book filled with images of my daughters.

Some photobooth rentals....here, and oooo here a vintage one, I like this one too.

Photo via Oh Joy!

New on my maternity wishlist.

This yummy maternity ensemble. I contacted Caitlin about her lovely dress. She informed me that it was a Ralph Lauren steal at Nordstroms last year. I won't say how much but it was, but it was enough to fit in even my budget. So alas I'll either have to make one or compromise:(
Photos featuring Caitlin Wilson, taken by Nicole Carman

Which one of these things is not like the other?

A couple readers alerted me to this interesting fact....

What's different in this picture?

The price. One is $25, one is $53.

Am I wrong but are these not the same dress only with better staging and lighting on the left?

But it here. Or....if you like to spend more money buy it here.

Compliment and Castigate

During my visit with the OB on Friday I was given a compliment on my cute blue striped dress AND very stern 'dress down'. Apparently, I am not gaining enough weight. At 24 weeks I weigh 115.9 lbs which to me seems normal for this point. It was such a concern at the appointment I am supposed to go back in two weeks to get weighed again and if I haven't gained two more pounds I am to see a nutritionist. Plus my blood pressure has been consistently 80/50-ish. Weird.

Molly was born rather small at 5lbs 12oz. Lily was something like 6lbs 10oz. So I don't have big babies but I was told for the health of this baby I MUST start eating more. Or should I say at least, getting the most bang for my buck with what I can manage to eat. It doesn't even have to be healthy, just fatty and full of protein. Apparently my mid day snacks of fruit and chocolate just aren't cutting it.

We stopped at Walmart on our way back and bought a whole bunch of protein bars and shakes. I ate one on the way home and now I don't feel hungry for dinner. So I'm a bit skeptical. Maybe this is how my body works. Eating more than what makes me comfortable seems sort of wrong too.

As far as problems go, I admit, this one shouldn't be something to complain too much about. BUT, I am worried I'm going to have a full term 4lb baby.

Meet....Eloise?

I've been wondering what this new baby will look like. I can't imagine that she will look like anything other than Molly. I can't imagine our genes blending in any different way. I couldn't really imagine what Molly would look like before she was born either.
Could she have black hair?
Could she have blue eyes?
I think if we had 20 children they'd ALL have medium brown hair and hazel eyes....and be girls.

I guess I'm just too impatient to see this new baby, whatever she may look like, whatever she'll be named. She'll be my sweet, soft, baby.

This is kinda a lame post but....

After much postponing and prolonging, we went to the grocery store yesterday. It was one of those ALL OUT trips. It might have been a record bill for us. Another shopper took one look at our cart as we made our way to the checkout and said "I wouldn't want to pay that bill."

But the food. OH THE FOOD. Isn't food such a blessing after you've gone without it for a few days? I woke up this morning thinking, I get to eat donuts for breakfast! FRESH donuts.

I am never going to take groceries for granted because, for me, they really are the foundations of a good day.

Dress me in ribbons and bows.

When I'm not pregnant anymore I would like to afford a dress from Modcloth once every week. And look like Zooey Dechanel:) This little number is only $53. Would look good with a wide aqua belt! If I were going to start a clothing company it would only sell dresses and LOTS OF THEM! Like 100 every season. And be inexpensive. And have a catchy blog name like 'smitten' or 'orange beautiful'.

Paper Straws knock my socks off!

Paper Straws are DIVINE! They look so retro and perfect in a table set up. You can buy them here for pretty cheap. I've never used them before but if someone has please let me know how they held up. Photos by Oh Happy Day.

My modest house of the moment.

I have been daydreaming of building a thin house. Do you ever do this? I find that it fills my downtime. I found this cute little plan. It's doesn't have anything special but I like to alter and decorate it in my head. The key point is that it would be super cheap to build if I could get some free land:)

My house would have dark hardwood floors in every room, recessed lighting in every room, faux wood beams in every room, a finished basement with a generous ceiling height and generous window height (that included a family room, guest room, studio and sewing room), a wide open staircase leading to the finished basement, vaulted ceiling in upstairs bedrooms, large walkout doors off the great room leading to a deck, a professionally landscaped enclosed backyard, a deep wide bathtub in the master bedroom, stainless steel appliances, and of course...a pantry.

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